Hi, I’m Wesley,

I didn’t always plan on becoming a therapist. I actually started my career as an engineer—graduating into a world that was shutting down and finding myself behind a desk in a job that looked good on paper but felt empty. Day after day, I found myself stuck in a routine that drained me, wondering if this was really it.

It wasn’t. Around that time, my wife, Trista, introduced me to the world of couples and family therapy. At first, it felt like a wild idea—but something about it clicked. I began to imagine a life where I could help people, build a business with meaning, and still be present for the things that matter most: my marriage, my future family, and a life that felt real.

Looking back, I can see clearly that God was leading me into this work.

Today, I specialize in working with couples and families who feel stuck—whether in old patterns, unresolved pain, or rigid expectations of themselves and each other. I use EMDR to help people process the experiences that still echo in their present, even if they wouldn’t call it “trauma.” My approach is systemic, meaning I focus on how your relationships, beliefs, and emotions all work together—and how small shifts can create real, lasting change.

I’m drawn to this work because I believe healing doesn’t always have to be dramatic—it can be steady, quiet, and deeply personal. In session, I’m naturally calm, curious, and down-to-earth. I tend to get to the heart of things quickly, but I always want to follow your pace. I love helping people shift how they see themselves and the world, in ways that inspire freedom, connection, and hope.

Outside of work, I find peace in the little things—a starry sky, a good story, a walk through nature. I also love a challenge: home projects, working on the car, flying planes, or finding a new trail to hike. I’m a hands-on kind of person, which might be why I love this work so much—because it’s real, it matters, and I get to walk with people through some of the most meaningful changes in their lives.

If you’re looking for a space that’s grounded, calming, and deeply supportive—I’d be honored to walk with you.